Coffee, a student’s voice, and inspiration

Kevin Steinby Kevin Stein

It’s a cold early spring day. I’m having coffee with Sachi, one of my former students. She has chosen a traditional Japanese house which was recently converted into a cafe. The floors are Japanese style straw mats. The coffee is served in bone-china so thin the light actually shines through the sides of the cup. From the large front window, we can see deer grazing in the park across the road. Sachi is wearing a sweat suit. She is, as always, smiling and relaxed. I taught her for 6 years in my advanced learner class. When she first came to my class, she was a medical student. Now she is an attending physician at one of the largest hospitals in Osaka. She is an accomplished member of the Japanese calligraphy community, a pianist, and is currently studying the art of coffee roasting. The following interview has been lightly edited for brevity and clarity.

Kevin: So what do you think of the coffee?

Sachi: It’s good. It’s a light roast, but it still manages to have a nice deep note of chocolate and a nutty quality. That’s quite difficult to get.

Kevin: You’ve had a lot of teachers over the years, can you think of three teachers who are memorable?

Sachi: Actually, I can think of many teachers who are memorable. But it’s not just the teachers. It’s the whole class. When I remember a teacher, I remember a student or two and a specific lesson as well. The teachers who I have a hard time remembering is more like a big blank in my English learning. I can’t remember the classes at all.

Kevin: That’s interesting. Do you think there is some kind of connection between good teaching and this kind of bigger picture you have of the whole class experience?

Sachi: I think so. I think a good teacher is able to make all kinds of things stand out. The best teachers I have had really give the students a chance to express themselves. So that is probably why I remember my classmates in those classes. Of course it just might be my tastes. Maybe I like a teacher who doesn’t have to have all the attention all the time.

Kevin: When you were one of my students, you always took time to ask other students what they thought in class. You were an excellent listener. What do you think about a teacher’s responsibility to teach and a teacher’s responsibility to listen.

Sachi: You know, I’m a medical doctor, and when I first started working, I thought a big part of my job was to tell patients what to do to get healthy. Which is a very typical novice doctor’s mistake. Now I know that the most important part of my job is to listen to my patients. They often know what is wrong with them. But I have to help them find the words to tell me about it. In the same way, I want my English teachers to let me speak and to let me find the words to say what I want to say. When I am a student in class, I also want to see and hear how other students express themselves. It is an important part of my learning. So I think it is a great thing when a teacher can be comfortable not talking. Of course, I love to talk, too. So sometimes I think a teacher needs to find a way to tell me to be quiet as well.

Kevin: I’m just wondering, do you think there are any other similarities between being a good doctor and being a good teacher?

Sachi: In Japanese, we use the same word for both teachers and doctors. The Chinese kanji means, “one who has lived in advance.” I take this to mean that a teacher is someone who has traveled a little further down the road that the student is on. If the student is willing, a teacher can help them take the next step a little more quickly or smoothly or enjoyably. But it is still the student who has to take that step. When you are treating a patient, it is often the same. I am an orthopaedic doctor and a lot of what I do involves patients taking special physical therapies. I might offer the treatment, but it is the patient who has to do the work.

Kevin: What happens when they just don’t do the work?

Sachi: (laughs) Are you talking about how our class never did their homework? Seriously, there is nothing I can do. But there are things I shouldn’t do. I can’t make the patient feel like a failure. If I do that, they will never go to therapy. And maybe they will just avoid the hospital. I can listen and make a different suggestion.

Kevin: Do you have any advice for teachers?

Sachi: In medicine, even in my field, which is orthopaedics, we are starting to realise that there is no such thing as illness or injury outside of a specific context. There are no living organisms which develop independently from their environment. We are focusing more and more on the environmental factors that impact our patient’s health. What is the patient’s diet at home? What is the noise condition of the neighbourhood? Is it keeping a child awake late at night, interfering with their development? Is there anything we can do to help the family mitigate these circumstances? I think learning and health are probably similar in this way.

Kevin: So you are saying that the teacher has to be aware of a student’s wider situation? That we have to understand all the factors that impact their learning?

Sachi: Not ALL the factors. But some of the factors. And more importantly, I have to help my patients learn to see the factors that impact their health even when I am not around. This is something I am just learning to do. My very best teachers helped me do this with my English learning.

Our coffee cups are empty. The sky is getting dark and the deer have all left the park across the way. Sachi looks out the window. 

Sachi: Maybe I should start taking English classes again. You know any good teachers?

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Kevin Stein

Kevin Stein is a teacher and a program manager. He works at Clark Memorial International High School. His areas of professional interest include how to use standardized tests to help students develop autonomous learning skills and the effective use of literature in language teaching. Kevin's Blog:The Other Things Matter Twitter: @kevchanwow

11 thoughts on “Coffee, a student’s voice, and inspiration”

  1. Inspiration is the word (and your introduction Kevin makes it so much more endearing).
    We quite often overlook the connections we form with our students. What stands out to them could be entirely different from what we have kept. And I’d say that’s down to perception. What we look for and what they look for and where those two meet. When I ask students what they think of their teachers and lessons, if they get what they wish or how they have tried to improve that connection, we always end up talking about adaptability. More often about the teacher’s ability to adapt to student ‘requirements’. It could be because teens are simply (and enthusiastically) straightforward, they’ll say what they want, what speaks to them, in an unbelievably empowering way.
    There are so many things I’ve kept from your post, but I’ll highlight my highlights (personal filters alert!).
    -Focus on the background. If what we teach is not in context, how useful will it be to our students?
    -The class as a whole – it’s not teacher vs students, it’s them and us, and we.
    -Listen. Truly listen. And act accordingly.
    -Language in all its beauty. The Japanese word for teacher being the same as the one for doctor. Chinese kanji for it, also given a personal observation and understanding. All given in English.
    -Coffee. An excuse, a delicacy, a connecting point.
    Thank you for sharing this.

    1. KevinStein
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      Thank you so much for the lovely comment and reminding me of one more thing that makes an effective and caring teacher, the ability to be specific. As you mention, when teachers and students connect, it is often because teachers have found a way to ‘adapt’ to students’ needs (and sometimes desires as well). This kind of on-the-fly adaption certainly takes a highly developed sense of each student, their individual abilities, their goals. Which means the teacher has to be observant, has to notice the small things. And when they do, the sense of connection and communication between teacher and students becomes stronger and clearer. Kind of the way I feel now after having read your comment and seeing all those very specific bullet points. I feel like you have really taken the time to listen to what I have to say, and I also feel willing and hopeful that this dialogue between us will continue. Probably the fundamental requirement of a successful teacher/learner relationship.

      Thanks for much to think about,

  2. Thank you for publishing this Kevin. Sachi’s insights are very enlightening for all of us. I cannot agree more with all she says. What I enjoyed the most is that she highlights the social aspect of education, teaching, and learning. Learning happens in groups and as Sachi says, a good teacher is the one who is a good group leader and manages to strengthen the group’s team spirit and lead by example.

    Truly, one of the best posts I have ever read.

    Thank you,

  3. Dear Kevin,
    This was a really beautiful interview. I particularly like the idea that you need to be aware of the students’ wider situation as a teacher, not just what happens in your classroom.
    It reminds me somewhat of Ann Cotton’s plenary at this year’s IATEFL: She talked about the importance of understanding the lives of the girls who are being educated by CAMFED, and how it’s impossible to truly educate somebody if you don’t know what is happening at home. If you haven’t seen it already, I’d recommend it.

  4. Thanks Kevin for brining this to our attention. Many teachers would overlook this fact. We need to keep that relationship maintained with our students in order to explore their personalities. Some students- I would call them unique- need a special attention. they perceive the world, as well as their lessons, in a unique way. Having a lazy student does not mean he/ she is not clever, it just means we need to understand them so we can get the key to their brain. we just need to explore and listen to our student.

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