{"id":565,"date":"2013-07-10T00:54:12","date_gmt":"2013-07-10T00:54:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/?p=565"},"modified":"2013-07-11T02:54:06","modified_gmt":"2013-07-11T02:54:06","slug":"working-with-difficult-students-vladimira-michalkova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/2013\/07\/10\/working-with-difficult-students-vladimira-michalkova\/","title":{"rendered":"Working with difficult students &#8211; Vladimira Chalyova"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong>Meeting Everyone\u2019s Needs \u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><strong>&#8212;\u00a0Vladimira Chalyova<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h2><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/vladka100x100.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-123\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/vladka100x100.png\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/vladka100x100.png 100w, https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/vladka100x100-36x36.png 36w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>I believe in second chances. In fact, I believe in giving second chances for as long as they\u2019re needed. That\u2019s basically my attitude towards <em>difficult<\/em> students, though I cannot really relate to putting the word <em>difficult <\/em>next to the word student. For me, such students are either lacking something or have more to give than the teacher is asking them to give.<\/p>\n<p>I am convinced that such students would thrive if they were given enough opportunities to express themselves.\u00a0 Unfortunately, it\u2019s unlikely they\u2019ll come right out and explain what they need. They might not even <em>realize<\/em> what they need. That\u2019s why it\u2019s so important to be a careful observer and an active listener.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs\">Maslow\u2019s Hierarchy of Needs<\/a> is a good frame of reference.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-1-Maslows_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg_.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-566\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-1-Maslows_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg_.png\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-1-Maslows_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg_.png 450w, https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-1-Maslows_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg_-300x225.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s probably not much you can do to help with the basic physiological needs at the bottom of the pyramid, but you can work to understand where students are coming from and how that might be contributing to classroom behavior.\u00a0 With such understanding you\u2019ll know that students who are falling asleep aren\u2019t bored. They\u2019re lacking a basic need: sleep, and there\u2019s a reason for that. Talk with them privately learn about their situation and thus avoid misunderstandings. With higher level needs such a love, esteem, and self-actualization you\u2019ll probably find something lacking in every challenging student you encounter. Think about:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The way you teach<\/strong>: your beliefs versus their needs and expectations.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The atmosphere in the group<\/strong>: is it supportive, safe and friendly?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Your own personality: <\/strong>are you always fair, open and understanding?<\/li>\n<li><strong>The bigger picture<\/strong>: do students know why they are doing what they\u2019re doing?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Space<\/strong>: is there space and time for students to put their personalities into their work.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If I\u2019m able to eliminate issues related to basic needs, I can focus on belonging, esteem and self-actualization by asking myself questions like those in this illustration:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-567\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-2-300x240.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-2-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-2-1024x819.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/VLADKA-Image-2.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>These ideas from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.brainrules.net\/\">John Medina\u2019s book Brain Rules<\/a> is also a framework:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>We can fully concentrate for only 10 minutes<\/strong>. Then it is time to wake up the brain with a <em>break<\/em> that is somehow related to the topic.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Our brain loves balance<\/strong> so provide a combination of rules and improvisation. Make it clear how things work but give time and space to practice it in various situations.\u00a0 Don\u2019t let students wander around hopelessly in exercises or feel stupid because they can\u2019t get a rule from context because their brain works differently.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The more senses you involve while learning, the stronger the memory path that is created <\/strong>and I presume the more students will remember. Definitely, learning will be more enjoyable.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>By paying attention to brain rules like these\u00a0 &#8212; especially with teens and young adults &#8212; we make learning actively purposeful and therefore increase the level of class satisfaction.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2011\/06\/110629123039.htm\">Psychologist Ed Diener writes<\/a> thatpeople evaluate their own lives more highly when others in society also have their needs fulfilled. Thus life satisfaction is not just an individual affair, but depends substantially also on the quality of life of one\u2019s fellow citizens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Replace the words <em>lives\/life, society <\/em>and <em>citizen<\/em> with <em>learning,<\/em> <em>the class<\/em> and <em>classmate<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The spirit of a class is as important as the information we <em>pass<\/em> to our students. If everyone in class is learning happily and needs are being met, challenging students are less likely to be <em>difficult<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>~ \u00a0Vladimira Chalyova<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Connect with Vladimira, Chuck, Scott, Tamas, \u00a0Nour, Ann and other iTDi Associates, Mentors, and Faculty by joining iTDi Community.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/itdi.pro\/itdihome\/\">Sign Up For A Free iTDi Account<\/a>\u00a0to create your profile and get immediate access to our social forums and trial lessons from our\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/itdi.pro\/itdihome\/courseEFT.php\">English For Teachers<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/itdi.pro\/itdihome\/catalog\/module1-TD.php\">Teacher Development<\/a>\u00a0courses.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Like what we do? 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