{"id":2605,"date":"2013-04-01T09:12:06","date_gmt":"2013-04-01T09:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/?p=2605"},"modified":"2013-04-01T09:12:06","modified_gmt":"2013-04-01T09:12:06","slug":"challenges-in-teaching-ratnavathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itdi.pro\/blog\/2013\/04\/01\/challenges-in-teaching-ratnavathy\/","title":{"rendered":"Challenges in Teaching – Ratnavathy"},"content":{"rendered":"

Facing Challenges\"Ratnavathy<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

\u2018Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you\u2019re going to get\u2019-<\/i> Forrest Gump<\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t we all wish that we can view life just as Forrest Gump did? Especially in embracing the dawn of each new day and savouring the nuggets of challenges that the platter of life\u2019s got to offer.<\/p>\n

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Sigh.<\/p>\n

Well, it doesn\u2019t work that way in reality, now, does it? For many of us, facing challenges can be a harrowing experience. It\u2019s frustrating, tiresome, energy consuming and accompanied by lots of uncertainties about the future. Challenges vary in intensity and duration; the more intense and the longer the duration, the tougher it gets.<\/p>\n

Ah! If we could only find a single workable wonder in moments of adversity, but alas, our brick walls are never quite the same.<\/p>\n

Hence, what I\u2019m about to do now is to let you through the door of one of my toughest challenges; one that I\u2019ve been enduring for many years and which brought me back home from abroad.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s private, a tough ordeal, emotionally draining and has left me feeling hopeless one too many times. Apologies for not being able to disclose the exact details here. However, I do believe that the bits I\u2019ll be sharing will provide you with some insight on how you, probably, can deal with similar experiences yourself.<\/p>\n

Accepting Reality<\/b><\/p>\n

Initially, it was impossible for me to accept facts. I sobbed, had sleepless nights and wallowed in self-pity. I thought of a thousand \u201cwhat-ifs\u201d and secretly detested people who seemed to have it all. Mental arguments often took place within me and this caused a lot of stress. However, as time went by, I realized that the pragmatic way is to accept reality no matter how painful it is; for when I finally did and learned to \u2018let go\u2019, a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders (and probably off my inner self as well). I found myself starting to think of ways to overcome the challenge. Hope arose and kept me going. It still does.<\/p>\n

Acceptance is the key.<\/p>\n

And when I accepted reality\u2026.<\/i><\/p>\n

Examine Alternative Solutions<\/b><\/p>\n

I started educating myself, taking the initiative to examine and explore possible solutions in overcoming the challenge. I\u2019d try one with hope, and when it failed, I\u2019d feel crushed. I\u2019d then pick myself up and look for more solutions. As this repeated itself, I felt my resilience building; I became stronger within, and empathized with others who faced similar challenges. Of course, there were moments when I\u2019d break down, but I guess we all do as humans.<\/p>\n

As time went on, I realized that\u2026.<\/i><\/p>\n

Many people face similar challenges<\/b><\/p>\n

Some challenges are so private that it\u2019s almost impossible to confide in anyone. I kept mine within me for a long time. It eventually became unbearable, leading me to confide in a close friend and that\u2019s when it dawned on me that I wasn\u2019t the only one! As I trod along the path, I found many others; each individual more strengthened than before, and each giving me a breath of fresh air. \u00a0I was inspired, for the hopes of many helped foster the hopes I held. Finding people who\u2019ve gone through similar challenges really helped open up different doors of perspectives in my mind.<\/p>\n

And the most important thing I realized was to\u2026.<\/i><\/p>\n

Make a light moment out of it<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes I sit down with my husband, laugh and make jokes about what I\u2019m facing. As foolish as it may sound, the magic of laughter can sometimes be so healing. Laughing has also helped me feel more energized and made me realize that the challenge I\u2019m facing is really, quite trivial, in comparison to those faced by others. So, when you feel like you\u2019re facing some tough times, try laughing about it and you\u2019ll know exactly what I mean.<\/p>\n

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Having shared the above, I believe that there\u2019s a reason for every challenge that manifests itself; for only in the face of adversity is a new-self born. Character building can never take place without challenge driven opportunities.<\/p>\n

Oh, and in case you\u2019re wondering as to whether I\u2019m still facing this particular challenge, the answer is yes. But I do see the light at the end of the long, dark tunnel and it\u2019s almost within reach. And of course, a promising future lies ahead!<\/p>\n

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